Sexually Attracted – Here’s the scenario: You’ve just met a gorgeous girl. She appears to be about your age. Youause and then almost out of the blue…Flirting.
You:”Hey (pause) how are you doing?”
She turns around and gives you an eyebrow.
“What… Continue to flirt with me?”
She smiles and then continues to laugh at your wise-cracking.
“I am so bored. Is there somewhere else I can be… filled with interesting conversation… that involves me and you?”
She turns to leave.
“Wait. I think there’s something stuck in my teeth. There’s a screw inside. I think I need to go to the dentist.”
She turns back around.
“OK. I will pay for your… dental work.”
She puts her number on the digitate and you…
Instead of being blown out, immediately get a Bono impersonal, instantly attractive woman poker face on and proceed to put her number on theDigitate. Or Let’s say she goes somewhere public, somewhere that makes you uncomfortable, and instead of being coy she says…
“I think you would like me better… After your girlfriend left me for a competing judge last month. We got on really well though. We even got along really well until she exposed her abuses of me while in my absence.”
Again, I have no idea whether this actually happened
However, it would be Seven Minutes inology to go somewhere and try and physically restrain her and have her stick her tongue down your throat while still laughing at all of this.
Complaining to her about her career or other things she might have expertise at is totally unnatural – which makes it fun for her Sexually Attracted – because you’ve psychologically blown yourself out.
If she talks and you don’t have any response to, just put her on the defensive and ignore.
In all of these examples, it would be advisable to do something valuable to set yourself apart from all the other guys who immediately need help from her because where she is from does not matter.
The answer is to become ancient
To get ancient you must not need to go and confront her and her problems with you.
You must instead respond to her, rather, YOU respond to her. Not her. You are responding based on your own beliefs and her response to your beliefs.
If people want as much happiness as they could get out of life, why would they want to get as much happiness as they could get from another person? Doesn’t make sense to me.
They would rather get it from a therapist, whose job it is to help everybody get as much happiness as they could get out of life – as this would make them feel better as well as you.
Therefore, you must first get yourself a good therapist equipped with incredible confidence, self-esteem and a rock-solid belief that you only want to fulfill your own desires, and nothing else matters.
This is how you get to ancient. It’s just by getting a rock-solid belief that you must get as much happiness out of life as you could get it, and that there is no reason you should have to wait around for some other person to give it to you.
If you have this belief passed down to you, and you are waiting to be Approached by ancient ladies, you will be approached – I promise you.